September 29, 2006

Talking Bad About Others Destroys Entrepreneurs

I have noticed how many struggling Entrepreneurs there are out there. One of the things I discovered about them is the majority of them had one thing in common.

What was the one thing in common you may be wondering…

Quite simply most were focused on what they didn’t have that others had and they were envious.

In fact it was even more than that. They also put down the people that had what they wanted. They would say things like: “those lucky people”, “they must of taken advantage of someone to get that”, “I can’t believe they made all that money”, or worse yet “you have to be a crook to get that.”

Sometimes it comes in the forms of jealousy where someone becomes famous or has some great success and others just put them down.

There was a great cartoon the other day which illustrates this quite well. If you Look at the cartoon, you will see that two girls talking are putting down the third girl who achieved success just because they didn’t like her.

Now the really bad thing about putting others down or talking bad about others as an Entrepreneur, you will never be able to get what you want.

That’s right. You can’t get what you want when you put others down.

This is a bitter pill to swallow.

So how do you get what you want?

Good question…

You must praise people for their success and for what they have. Even if you don’t like the individual, let it go. Bless them for their success and bless them so they have more success. Only then will you get the success you want.

Let me explain how this works. When you bless others for the success or material possession you have you are telling your mind that it’s ok for you to have it too. Conversely, if you condemn others for their success or material possessions then you are telling your unconscious mind this is no good for you to have either.

Remember, as an Entrepreneur you must be careful what you ask for. You might just get it. Your unconscious mind is the prover and will prove whatever your conscious mind the thinker is thinking. It has to. That’s the job of your unconscious mind.

Therefore it is always better to stay positive about things you want that others have. As an Entrepreneur you cannot afford to talk bad about others because you will go broke or stay broke if you do.

Always bless that which you want that others have. You will produce great results in your life by doing so.

So how do you change your current habit to be more positive?

Read my book Wealth Without a Job and learn how to change your state. Read chapter 4 and you will discover a whole new world when you train your mind to cooperate. When you Read Wealth Without a Job, take your time. It’s not about speed. It’s all about comprehending and applying the material you learn.

You will quickly notice shifts in your life after you go through Chapter 4.

To Your Success,
Andy Fuehl